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May 8th, 2011

Royal Wedding Vox Pops

Hi peeps, many apologies for the massive delay in getting this post up!  Thank you very much Bob for contacting me about the lateness of the post – your interest is very much appreciated.  I will have to plan the next post better to ensure that it’s uploaded sooner.

This video is a collection of interviews of people who attended the royal wedding street party, and who kindly gave their opinions on why they were at the celebration.  Interestingly, most answers related to the attraction of being part of a community event, rather than having an interest in, or loyalty to, the royal family.  Initially, the opinions on that day made me ask myself whether a royal family is needed at all, but then I realised that it’s vicariously due to them that everyone was celebrating together anyway.  However, this lead me to asking why we human beings need a reason to come together as a happy community – not just on a societal level, but on an individual level.

I would love to hear your thoughts.  How do you feel about the state of our society?  Are you fulfilled as an individual?

Personally, on a societal level (or macro-level!), I feel that there is a lot of anger and limitation injected into our communities by pessimistic journalism and a narrow-minded education system which encourages conformation limiting creativity and individual growth.  On the other hand, there is great potential within our society and culture for creativity and significant growth.  Creativity and individual thinking is key to improving our society further and encouraging people to achieve their dreams; bypassing ideological barriers and limitations which we ourselves manufacture.  Yes, this is a challenge, but it is an exciting one!

I am constantly challenging myself which does often uncover realisations about my life which I need to improve.  For example, on Wednesday (4th May 2011),  after meeting Simon Phillips (transformational change expert) and discussing his fantastic new self-development system ‘Join The Greats’ (for which I’m helping to make some films), I have now taken a massive step in something in my life which will enable to live better.  I realised that the only thing which has been holding me back from being happy is fear which I’m now determined to overcome.

So, from the royal wedding to personal development in fewer than 500 words!  But, please let me know your thoughts on any of the issues raised in this post, and I’ll try to incorporate them in future video logs/ posts.  Also, feel free to check out Simon’s new book ‘Mastering Time 24/7’ which is a fantastic course which will help you to improve your life by managing your time more effectively.   I’m reading it at the moment and its fab as it encourages you to take responsibility rather than giving you a ‘one fits all’ series of steps.

Until next time, have fun!

May 1st, 2011

The Royal Wedding – video will be up by Tuesday at the latest

Friday was a fab day and it was very interesting finding out the reasons why people were there celebrating. I also met some weird characters, one of which asked me whether I’d made any new friends that day. I was going to try and explain to
him that there were over 1,000 peeps there so it would have been challenging to form any meaningful relationships! However, he was more interested at selling his memorabilia to the small crowd behind me and he was not that interested in speaking to me anyway…poor lad…he was easily distracted, you see!

On the other hand, I also met some very interesting peeps who talked to me more intelligently!  I met a lady who is currently pioneering a series of free festivals for Southampton in the summer, promoting recycling and community spirit. It’s being organised through the Transition Southampton website which I recommend you to visit.

Anyway, I’m going to finish this post before I give too much away about the video blog…see you again next Tuesday (3rd May 2011)!

April 23rd, 2011

Things Are About to Change!

PICTURE: Me, meandering along the seafront!
Me, meandering along the seafront!

Sorry for not posting for a while now – I’ve been so busy chasing up new projects and meeting fabulous people who have inspired me  A couple of weeks ago, for example, I met a guy called Steve Surridge who runs Feel Good UK; a charity helping young people develop.  I went to sunny vibrant Portsmouth to have a chat with him about the best way I can market my skills.  I wanted to meet him anyway after writing about one of his earlier projects when he produced a web-based soap opera called Chalkhill Lives (based in Portsmouth) in the first part of the 2000s.

I found the Cmix of the sea air together with Steve’s pearls of wisdom and shear enthusiasm so inspirational that I had a lovely day down there (please see cheesy medium close-up photo of me meandering along Southsea seafront!).

We spoke about the need for more ‘diverse’ people in the media – in front as well as behind the camera – and for an urgent need for more positivity in society.

Actually, we covered a very diverse range of topics and it is partly because of that day that the Silly Moods Blog will be radically changing!  Instead of posting text-based articles, I am now planning to do video blogs exploring my crazy experiences which will be much more interesting, and will hopefully encourage more interactivity.  The video blog (or “vlog” hereafter!) posts will also be available on YouTube as well to maximise the accessibility to the spirit of Silly Moods!

The first video blog post will be on the royal wedding, and hopefully exploring people’s reactions to old Will & Kate getting married.  Do I care about theirmarriage?  No, not really, but I do feel it is a good excuse for people to celebrate and, in a way, re-united, through rediscovering a shared national pride (allbeit, a temporary one!).  I’ve already managed to source a camera which I’m borrowing from my friend, and I’ll be attending one of the many celebratory events being held across the UK.  “Which one?” you may ask.  Well, tune back here next Sunday (1st May 2011) to find out!

That’s all, so until next time, bye!   And, oh yes, please feel free to comment on anything I say.

January 6th, 2011

Is University a Waste of Time? – it depends who you are

I recently came across Alice Carder’s blog article discussing whether attending university will help you get a career – you can read her article here: http://alicecarderuk.blogspot.com/2010/12/article-in-independent-on-sunday-11.html

Alice cited a number of students opting for university just because they didn’t know what else to do.   Actually, Alice’s university experience is quite similar to mine, as I also achieved a first class honours and the course was very practical as well.  Also, there were students on my course who seemed to be there for the sake of it. But why?

Well, in my opinion, there is room for more entrepreneurism as we need to realise that the only way to achieve is by taking charge of ourselves and stop grasping at straws.  To do anything, you need passion and drive to push forward and to get yourself accessing the right opportunities.  However, our current army-like education system encourages discipline which is good, but it stops people from validating their own abilities by enforcing conformity and marking by criteria.

The university I went to treated us as adults and I would nearly always find myself debating about something.  In fact, there was a period of time when I had a kind of debating buddy with whom I had heated (but friendly!) debates about all sorts of things every week.  Oh god…what fun!

For me, university was really a life-changing period of my time.  It opened up my mind to different points of view, meeting fantastic people, and learning about myself.  The challenging time has been since leaving university looking for a job because a degree doesn’t alone guarantee a career but the process of achieving it is arguably more important than the certificate you get at the end.  This is only true if you’re really passionate about the subject-area you’re studying in the first place.

However, for people, such as my sisters, going straight into a career after school suits them better.  I’m really proud of my sisters as they are now building successful and enjoyable careers faster than me.  They took another route which has been just as challenging as university, but has provided an experience which has suited their needs.

Every now and then, I do get acutely jealous of their successes, but then again, I have followed my own path.  This has led to making my own film and meeting people who work in the media in which where I want to develop my career.

So, university is worth your time if you genuinely want to study something you’re passionate about and if you’re going for the right reasons.

However, if you choose to go out of convenience or solely because you think it’s a way to get that dream job despite lack of passion for the actual course, then university might be a waste of time and money.  Also, think about what you really want to do instead.  Do what feels right for you to avoid ending up in a career which might make you unhappy.

So, to round this article off nicely: Is University a Waste of Time? – it depends who you are!  Did you see what I did there?!

January 3rd, 2011

A dramatic but successful day!

After a nail biting time waiting to see whether the rain would clear on Saturday morning, we finally took to the sky to jump from 13,000 ft; raising at least £4,000 for Canine Partners and Comic Relief’s Red Nose Day ’09 campaign!

Forecasts were bad for Saturday’s weather; casting doubts on whether the jump would be going ahead. Postponement of the jump was discussed on the Friday as a large number of people from all corners of the country were due to come and watch. However, it was decided that we should risk it and to go to the airbase on Saturday.

I got little sleep on Friday night; waking up at 0400 hrs in the morning and worrying about the success of the day ahead. On the way up to Oxfordshire, the weather looked uncertain. The sky was filled with low grey clouds with tiny hints of sun shining through.

However, on arrival, the instructors were very doubtful about the jump happening. To an extent, this served as a comfort thinking I wasn’t going to jump out of a flying plane at 13,000 ft that day! On the other hand, I was painfully aware that as the wet morning went on, more and more people were arriving with the hope of watching me and Michelle skydive.

After three hours of waiting in hope of good weather, we started thinking about postponing the jump as the chances still looked bleak. By then, my bladder was getting pretty full so I wondered off to the toilet. Suddenly, one of the instructors shouted “we’re on!” I began to quick march to the toilet where I found out that the light didn’t work. The pressure was on and I eventually decided to try to do my business with the door open to provide enough light for me to be able to see what I was doing. Going to the toilet under pressure whilst being called is not one of my stronger points!

So with only being able to squeeze a drop out, I had to rush all the way back to the briefing area to get kitted up.

My nerves started to go wild. After getting kitted up, I was rushed to the roaring plane which was going to take me up. The plane ride up was the worst stage. I had to sit on the floor of a rickety plane in between my instructors legs. I was able to see through the clear Perspex door and noticed the ground quickly disappearing from underneath the old aircraft.

I started seeing what appeared to be smoke coming from the engine! But I soon realised that this “smoke” was the start of the clouds which we were quickly flying through. I could feel pressure building up in my head which I found easy to release through doing a series of yawns.

The time quickly passed, and before I knew it, I was sitting on the edge of the plane with my feet dangling above the fluffy bed of white cloud below. It was like being in another realm where the ground appeared to be made out of “marshmellowey goodness”. I went into a state of acceptance of what was to come – I was nervous but I did not react to that feeling knowing it would be pointless and may have put our safety in jeopardy.

When we left the plane and started plunging down through the clouds, I had to maintain my cool and remember to breathe despite the blast of cold air continually blowing in my face. I saw a rush of cloud whizzing across my face as I cut through the white bed of clouds. I quickly forgot about my full bladder! After ten seconds of free fall at 9m per second, I saw the ground below as the clouds opened up.

We suddenly got jolted upwards at which point I thought something was going drastically wrong. It took me a few seconds for me to get my bearings after doing lots of twists and turns. I then realised that this jolt was the parachute opening up after which everything went silent and I found myself surveying the ground below.

It felt as if we were being suspended in the air even though I knew we were going down still – like being on the London Eye or bouncing on cling film – to tenuously make a far out comparison!

Everything on the ground appeared very small and relatively insignificant in comparison to my view of the ground from that height! I was in awe of the vast landscape below me whilst occasionally saying “oh my god – it’s amazing!”

I was surprisingly confident enough to wave at the spectators on the ground as we came into landing which went perfectly. My legs were not in any danger as they were strapped to the legs of my instructor who also put his feet under my feet during touch-down.

After doing the jump, I cannot believe that it took almost three years to get the medical consent. Doing a tandem skydive is pretty straight forward – all you have to do is relax and enjoy the jump as the tandem master operates the parachute.

I would like to say a massive thank you to Steve Scott and his colleagues at Skydive Weston who made this jump possible.

Now – the challenge is to collect the sponsorships from our amazing sponsors.

Although I haven’t calculated the total amount of money raised, I can confidently say that we’ve reach our target of £4,000!

I also eventually emptied my bladder four hours after – what a relief!

December 3rd, 2010

Diverse TV…really?

Screen-based content’s power of delivering new realities and perspectives to    unwitting audiences is undisputable.  Society has benefited from the diversity of people, their backgrounds, and experiences, shaping a cohesive collective which makes up the population of the UK.

Despite this, there are still concerns about the lack of representations of people who have disabilities on our screens in the mainstream context.  Paradoxically, none of the broadcasters and content producers are doing anything “wrong” either, they just need to go a bit further.

What do I mean by this?  Well, almost all TV dramas featuring a ‘disabled’ character make the disability its main narrative focus.  As with current affairs and the entertainment genres, it is rare to see a presenter with a disability presenting or fronting a programme which does not focus on a ‘disability’-related issue.  We don’t usually get a sense of the personality of that character or presenter, as they are usually labelled by virtue of how they are portrayed on screen or what they feature in.  Content producers now need to start incorporating these characters and presenters into mainstream programming.

This kind of approach applies to most of the other underrepresented groups of people on screen.  I’m just using ‘disability’ because I’ve just successfully made a film featuring me but without making a fuss about my so-called ‘disability.  By the way, I recognise that this article could be seen as being a paradox as it labours this very point and in turn could be seen to emphasise the ‘disability’ element.

Nevertheless, we need to move away from tokenism in the representation of difference.  In a way, paradoxically, for it to work, we need to move on to representing the personalities rather than ‘the difference’ when portraying people labelled as ‘disabled’, ‘gay’, ‘black’, or whatever other labels we want to use.

We are moving forward though.  For example, channel four is now looking for new presenters to host 150 hours of their live coverage of the Paralympic games in 2012.  This is fantastic as it will increase the representation off those who have a “disability” on-screen.  However, the presenters will still be fronting content to do with “disability.”  I hope that these presenters will then move on to fronting more mainstream programmes.

When making custard, you need to mix the custard powder into a paste to slowly introduce to the milk constantly whilst stirring.  If one puts the powder into the milk straightaway, you will end up with lumpy milk.  To attain that full thick vanilla goodness, you need to mx the paste in carefully and at a constant rate.  The same applies to diversity on TV – the ‘mainstream’ needs to be constantly introduced to new concepts and cultures, but a tokenistic quick approach only emphasises the gap of ‘difference’

Sources:

http://www.guardian.co.uk/media/2010/aug/09/channel-4-paralympics

September 7th, 2010

Freedom of the press…has it gone too far?

I support the idea of democracy and freedom of expression. However, I find it challenging when I see the UK press attacking and mocking people in the public eye because of their private issues.

I am of course writing this in response to press stories about William Hague’s alleged “inappropriate relationship” with his male advisor, Christopher Myers. Now, the press have a duty to report issues which have public value, helping to stimulate growth and diversity within society. With this duty comes the freedom to report on anything which can sometimes put politicians in an uncomfortable position. Need I remind you that politicians’ spending is now high up on the agenda because of press reporting the scandals? This is good for society.

However, when the press start discussing the private lives of individuals which have no relevance to how they contribute to society, that’s going a bit too far and is actually damaging to society and our culture.

It was perfectly justified for Guido Fawkes’ blog to scrutinise Christopher Myers appointment to being one of William Hague’s advisors considering is apparent lack of experience. This has public value as it was seeing whether there was any wrong-doings in appointing government officials in an undemocratic way.

But the angle from which the reports have been written gossip about William Hague’s sexuality. This in turn encourages the public to gossip and get angry which subsequently reinforces prejudices on homosexuality and, in a wider context, the concept of ‘difference’. There is a lot of work being done to help people accept difference, but this is countered when the media mock the private lives in the public spotlight. Where’s the public value in that?

The other issue with reporting on private lives of politicians, in particular, is that it could create a culture within politics where politicians have to put on a false persona. This would damage the very fabric of politics by forcing our MPs to behave synthetically, thus reinforcing the distrust between the public and the politicians.

We seem to forget that politicians are also people who have feelings. William Hague was forced to make a deeply personal statement about his marriage after the rumours came out. This was unfair and will probably make him more aware about how he behaves and what he says in the future.

By the way, this is not a pro-Conservative or a pro-William Hague article. The media is a vital component of our democratic infrastructure, but feeds on our lust for anger and gossip. It accentuates but also dictates public mood and related zeitgeists. Often, this involves evoking anger out of the British people. Therefore, there may be a need for tighter regulation of the press, because, if Star Wars taught me anything, it taught me that anger will destroy you!

Any thoughts welcome…

January 24th, 2010

Online Identities – a good thing?

This year sees the exit of the Big Brother cult with the final seriesof the programme finishing this summer.  I for one am not too upset about it – so far, I have had no inclination to watch Celebrity Big Brother.  But why is this?  I would have been hooked into it two years ago.  This has got me thinking!

I suppose I am bored with caring about what other people are doing – I log on to Facebook everyday keeping up to date with other people’s dramas!  Facebook also provides me with a platform to enhance my own identity by joining groups and playing games and pretending to be a pirate.  However, I have tried to avoiddoing this and therefore moulding an online identity as I feel this would make me vulnerable to getting offended should anyone criticise me for joining a group or commenting on my status detailing my life at that time.    Rather, I prefer to concentrate on my internal identity to improve my self-worth rather than my self-image (or my external identity)!

The other reason I keep my interaction to a minimum on Facebook is my experience of seeing other people moaning constantly to seek some kind of sympathy and therefore approval from other Facebookers.  This is where Facebook and Twitter has destroyed the popularity of Big Brother.  Instead of enjoying the opportunity to criticise housemates on the screen to re-affirm our identities, people have now gone the other way and started seeking approval to enhance their egos.  It is my opinion that people are now more than ever striving to be accepted into an online community.  This hardly encourages self-improvement as people are moulding their external identities for them to ‘fit in’.  At an emotional level, we are becoming reliant on what other people say of think about us for us to be content.

However, this phenomenon has been great for marketers and campaigners – Facebook and other social networking sites have been platforms for issues to be brought to the fore.  Campaigners have used people’s lust for forming their online identities as a tool to recruit support for campaigns, thus improving society.

So, at an individual’s level, you could say that social networking detracts from self-improvement, but on a macro level, it has provided a way for new issues to be thrown into the public sphere.  Itself a social paradox – self-improvement has given way to improving society.  Whether this is for the better or not is yet to be realised!  But in the meantime, I’ll stick to improving myself and keep questioning my values.

November 9th, 2009

Give or Take

I feel a deep sense of elation as I sit here typing this blog-type article.  Today was the day when I had the pleasure of handing a cheque over to Canine Partners for £2,641.41 – half of the amount raised by my skydive campaign this July.  This was all done on camera of course!

The car journey down to Canine Partners beforehand was made relevant by the topic of deep conversation about how capitalist our society is getting.  The conversation was born out of sitting in a car for an hour with my cameraman sitting next to me and my assistant in the front driving the car.  It is always quite nice putting the world to rights in this type of situation!

Anyway, one of the guys said something that has stuck with me – they said that we need opportunities to give as we’re happier giving rather than taking.  It took some time for me to get my head around that, but it suddenly clicked after I had finished handing over my cheque to Canine Partners.

If you think about it, when you take, you may feel guilty, jealous, and/ or become a narrow thinker.  This might lead to causing offence to others, being isolated through becoming unpopular and you may also be restricted in having as many experiences as you would have otherwise.

On the other hand, if you always gave, you would be popular which may lead on to you being invited to different places and gaining different experiences.  It may also lead to self-fulfilment and feeling that you have made other people happy.  Yes, you could say it’s still a capitalist type outcome in that you’re still ultimately giving to make yourself feel happy – somewhat a paradox!

However, the second approach may result in encouraging a community culture instead of a culture of greed, fear, and deceit!

September 14th, 2009

Legalising Product Placement in the U.K.

Product placement has been a contentious issue between broadcasters and regulators – arguing whether legalising this to in the UK would benefit our nation or destroy editorial standards. Product placement has been legalised in America, as well as in Europe, for a long time and has contributed more than $7BN in revenue to the US Broadcasting landscape.

We are now expecting the ban on product placement in the U.K. to be lifted (which is to be announced this week).

I’ve been on-the-fence about this issue for a long time now following extensive research I conducted for my minor degree project. I am warming to making product placement legal in the U.K. as it will indeed start to re-vitalise the broadcast industry; pumping up to £ 125m into the commercial broadcasting sector in the next three years, according to the Media Guardian.

Andy Duncan, Channel 4 Chief executive, points out that “ relaxing the rules would deliver a marginal commercial benefit” to production companies. This therefore sets the challenge of creating legislation which would avoid producers creating content specifically for product placements.

We will wait and see what Ben Bradshaw says in his speech to the Royal Television Society this week.

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